Holding a Grudge

I have learned a long time ago that holding a grudge hurts the one that is doing the holding.

My dad was mad at his dad for a long time.  His dad died before I was born and it wasn’t until I was an adult that I found out the issues at home weren’t my doing.

There is a family member who has been upset with Gpa since we were kids.  When he first got diagnosed, I told her now is the time to clear the air.  But she hasn’t and she brought up the story again during the holidays.

That’s a long time.

I’m not going to hold a grudge against my friend, but  I am going to set some boundaries.

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